Back in high school my boys and I would say this saying "Goodbye Brothers". It started off pretty stupid, we would say this when we about to take some dumb risk that we might not come back from. nothing was off the table. It was like that saying if your friends jump off a cliff would you? And we would all jump off that cliff simultaneously and have the best time doing it. Some of the dumbest decisions led us to have some the best times. So to be honest "Goodbye Brothers" promotes making stupid decisions. In simple form the fear of looking stupid is holding you back. I would rather look stupid in life then to be afraid of messing up. I want to find out for myself what my decisions can bring me to and what I can learn from them. Who knows you might do something great in the process.